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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>A VC - Latest Comments in Saying No</title><link>http://avc.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="https://avc.disqus.com/saying_no/latest.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 09:06:08 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-27013</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Fred, I agree with everything you said.  The only thing I would add-- if you're going to turn an entrepreneur down saying that you don't have confidence in the entrepreneur, then I think you owe that person some constructive critcism.  I'm sure that you do this, but you didn't mention it in your post, so I thought I'd comment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's one thing to turn down an idea or a market, but it's a pretty harsh blow to turn down a person, and tell them to their face.  At least explain to the person why there is no confidence: i.e., lack of track record, questionable hires made to date, etc.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Pete&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Pete</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 09:06:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-10139</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I prefer you telling me I cannot run the company than waiting for your forever response on investing into my company.&lt;br&gt;At least if after fews "no" with the same reason I Cannot run the company, I'd start to look for someone who could run the company.&lt;br&gt;That's better than "waste" your time trying to get a VC to invest without knowing why they all say "no"&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Adam Benayoun</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 19:11:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5819</link><description>&lt;p&gt;That said, how often do you run into an opportunity that has one fixable problem and what do you do?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Andy Freeman</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2007 01:40:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5805</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I love the Talking Heads quotes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This might be a fun thing to keep up in the comments of this blog going&lt;br&gt;forward&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;fred&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 21:51:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5739</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I wish there are more VC's like you.  My personal experience is that very few of them are capable of saying NO.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;" ... in a perfect world, if an idea from an entrepreneur is not ready for funding, VC's should simply tell them to go away and come back when it is ready.  But the problem with VC’s is that ... while their instinct might tell them that I stink, their intellect would convince them that they might miss out on the next Google.  So VC’s will never actually tell me to go away.  Instead, they will hover around and keep me at a sniffing distance until they are convinced that I will never get funded by one of their neighbors."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How to Turn Your VC into Your Worst Enemy&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lovemytool.com/blog/2007/10/vc-worst-enemy.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.lovemytool.com/blog/2007/10/vc-worst-enemy.html"&gt;http://www.lovemytool.com/b...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;--Denny--&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Denny K Miu</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 03:53:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5726</link><description>&lt;p&gt;As others have said, 'no' is 1000 times better than the neverending 'maybe' answers that many VCs give.  I'd rather hear 'no' because of xyz (even if it's a brief reason).  Just because I hear 'no' I don't interpret that as 'never.'  In many cases, it means not right now.  I also appreciate this answer from a potential customer because otherwise you can spend your life trying to get them when they really have no intention of working with you.  When I have a prospect tell me this I thank them because I can put them on the backburner and focus my attention on other areas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you are not confident in the founder/CEO then I think it's perfectly fine to tell them that by saying something like "I think you need to add xyz skills to make this a deal one we are interested in evaluating further."  A true entrepreneur (IMHO) will say 'OK, thanks let me work on that and I'll get back to you if it makes sense.'  I think many entrepreneurs think they have to force a fit (just for $$) where there just may not be a fit and just like in many relationships if you force a fit in the short term...it can go sour b/c both parties weren't at least 95% bought in on a) the company, b) the mgmt, or c) the market.  Make friends, keep them posted, and if not this deal then another deal you are involved in the future might make sense and be a better fit.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Aruni</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 20:23:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5699</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for being human.  I've been on both sites and the truth is always better.  Be strong.  Be direct.  Be yourself. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">SCP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 14:19:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5685</link><description>&lt;p&gt;As an LP (with Fred and many others),  we are in the same position of constantly saying "no".  I do try to look at all of the PPMs and presentations but we are often overwhelmed by inbound interest.  I've tried a thousand different ways of saying "no" to VCs and I'm sure all you entrepreneurs will be glad to hear that they (the VCs) are faced with the same hunt for capital from LPs and that they hear a lot of "maybe's" and just don't get answers from many LPs.  Most of the time it's not the market or the business plan that I'm shooting down but the team.  It is very difficult to say no because you can't get conviction around a person or their partners.  So when I do say no, I try to be bluntly honest and I've found that is the best way of stopping the bleeding.  So far,  I'm pretty glad that I said "yes" to Brad and Fred.  Lindel&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Youre talkin a lot, but youre not sayin anything. - psycho killer&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ldeakman</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 10:25:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5680</link><description>&lt;p&gt;We don't have a process that is written in stone like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Clearly the people are the most important followed closely by product and&lt;br&gt;market.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And we do care what price we pay.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wish I could tell you that we have a specific way that we look at each and&lt;br&gt;every deal, but we don't. Each one is different and we analyze them&lt;br&gt;differently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;fred&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 08:39:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5679</link><description>&lt;p&gt;How far back do you want me to go?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 08:39:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5656</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Fred.  Thanks for the insight you so willingly and frankly share.  Our (hopefully soon to be) capital partner tells us their decision process goes, in order, People, Product, Market, Valuation.  An investment opportunity must pass each criteria in order to move on to the next. If you pass all four and get through their underwriting committee, you get funded.  Do you use a similar process, or will you share your high level criteria?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Waterstraat</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 23:30:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5649</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I wouldn't mind seeing a Fred Wilson 'anti-portfolio' -- a la Bessemer --.  Let's see the deals you passed on that you wish you said 'yes' to.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JA</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 22:36:27 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5639</link><description>&lt;p&gt;That is so good to hear Fred - very very few people think like this and then do that. When I was "vocationally challenged" during the downturn, I had the same request from companies/recruiters - 1) tell me no - at least something and then if you can 2) a why so that I can learn and get better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think the responsibility lies on both parties and more with the one listening to the No - if they can make the person giving feedback comfortable about it, you will increase your chance of learning and practicing kaizen. A good No almost is better than a Yes - you have a problem to solve and you will probably come out stronger if you have the right attitude. Smooth sailing never teaches you anything.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mrinal</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 17:57:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5637</link><description>&lt;p&gt;"Try not to look so disappointed. &lt;br&gt;It isn't what you hoped for, is it?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;-- "Memories Can't Wait"&lt;br&gt;Fear of Music&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Greg Pass</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 16:20:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5634</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wonderful. I wonder how many talking heads fans we've got in this community&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 15:51:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5631</link><description>&lt;p&gt;"And you may find yourself in a beautiful house, with a beautiful wife"&lt;br&gt;--"Once in a Lifetime"&lt;br&gt;Remain in Light&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Robert Seidman</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 15:44:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5622</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I met with a VC recently who was relatively new to the job.  She gave us explicit feedback on what she didn't like about our business.  It was the most refreshing and helpful meeting I'd taken with a VC, and I told her so.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You're in a service business... if you help out an entrepreneur now (and not just blow smoke like 99% of VCs out there), that entrepreneur will be more likely to want to work with you in the future.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">kareem</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:52:04 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5620</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I wouldn't ever hold you to this Fred, but what if a team came back to you a month later and said, "we fixed all the things that turned you off". Would you look again? &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">John K</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:40:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5618</link><description>&lt;p&gt;good post, but it's actually harder to say no when you're an entrepreneur faced with 1000 and 1 growth opportunities, employee requests etc... &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ashkan karbasfrooshan</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:14:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5617</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Great post.  Sadly, the venture capital industry is infamous for the never-ending maybe...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Don Jones</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:54:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5614</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Speaking as an entrepeneur, "no" is a much better answer from a VC than the usual "maybe, could you give us a bit more data on your business? and we have this technology person we'd like you to meet. and could you update us next month with the latest business metrics?". Naive entrepreneurs tend to believe the VCs are sincerely interested when they're just being strung along. It's one of the unpleasant lessons a founder has to learn.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">NelsonMinar</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:44:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5613</link><description>&lt;p&gt;"watch out, you might get what you're after"&lt;br&gt; -- "Burning Down The House"&lt;br&gt;Speaking In Tongues&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:38:21 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5611</link><description>&lt;p&gt;you took honesty to a higher level!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:36:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5610</link><description>&lt;p&gt;andy's right - it's hard to say "do this and we'll fund you". you don't want to set expectations that way. it's best to say "this is a problem for me" without the explicit committment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;fred&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:36:04 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Saying No</title><link>http://avc.com/2007/10/saying-no/#comment-5609</link><description>&lt;p&gt;erik - i only wish i could provide everyone with the experience you had!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">fredwilson</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:33:53 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>