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For 'inspiration' , i'm a huge fan of
http://amazingstufftome.blogspot.com/
http://wakeuptiger.blogspot.com/
What i think is missing is not only original thought and stories, but actual in depth analysis of what disruptions may cause.
Hopefully Disqus will be able to bring expertise and expansion of thought into what has become mundane blogging. Maybe the blogger isn't as important as a reporter rather than as a location?
The individual as a cultural "node" - yeah, of course, exactly! We don't "create" - we process and transform.
Beliefs are beliefs.(I.e. God). I don't have a problem with them except when they are used as hammers. Which they only are when they become organized into groups with doctrines....Most terms, "author is dead" can also become hammering doctrines!
re: "beliefs" - I have a huge problem when a guy in the White House mumbles about his "Higher Father" and leads a 300 million nation into the wrong war without even consulting with his real father...
re: "hammering" - true...
Perhaps your problem is that you've been searching for inspiration from others instead of searching for it within yourself.
As Carl Jung said, "He who looks outside, dreams; he who looks inside, awakes."
But I work in a business where others inspire me daily with their energy, passion, and ideas
Maybe I've made that a crutch
"He who looks inside, dreams; he who looks outside, awakes." - and that would probably be the core of what I got from my years in cultural studies... and very much at the base of my personal worldview - I never realized how perfectly anti-Jungian I was in this way... :)
That's what I do anyway and works for me. I have a whole bunch of music start pages on Odysen that I use, most of the pages are still in private, but here are some public ones: http://odysen.blogspot.com/2008/06/fear-loathin....
Hope it works, vacations are good too.
Lots of inspiration in the air!
A lot of it was lost when we lost BYTE, and Datamation.
(I am aware they still exist, I think they remain in some zombie form)
Some of the best minds went to work for the companies they covered, like Jon Udell, who's now a Microsoft employee.
Others try to lead an independent life blogging in pajamas from home, and do something else to cover costs.
The serious, skilled reporter who can understand deep issues and present them in an interesting, thought-provoking way is sadly a species in extinction.
If Arrington is the canon after whom the next generation of tech journalists/authors is going to be modelled, we're going to get an awful lot of lawyers.
Maybe there's a business model for a serious publication that could charge $5 monthly, but you know you'd be getting real beef, not a big-mac.
Part of this has to be generational. As more people are born into the web world, the more talent - journalistic and otherwise - we'll have around to help us talk story and figure out what it all means.
:-)
I love seeing long articles from the relatively low-frequency blogs in my reader. I don't know that you can get much good, real, deep, and potentially profound thinking done on a high-volume basis, and while there may be millions of examples of two-sentence soundbite wisdom floating around, that(this) is after the fact. You can bet that the pre-packaged quotes we enjoy now started out a fair bit longer - right ideas may be simple, but explaining them to people whose perspective is deeply rooted in a particular paradigm or meme is not.
The earth does, though, does revolve around the sun. Or so they say.
For me, taking a walk is a way to clear my mind, take a step out of my computer, and develop ideas spurred by things other than words and images on a screen. Bringing in a guest blogger occasionally could be a way for AVC to take a walk when in need of some unique inspiration.
Given your network, it would be fascinating to see what's top of mind to everyone - from a CEO talking about the pains of SOX compliance to one of the developers at a startup you've backed talking about the pains of scaling their app. The only downside would be the wave of requests you get to "post this on your blog please", but if you make it clear it's you reaching out to potential guests, rather than vice versa, that could keep it to a minimum. The key would be to keep it more like an op-ed page, than like the Daily Show where people are coming on to pitch their latest book. Just my $.02.
I really need a 'submission queue' on avc
I feel like you should be able to get a post idea across in that space, and you can subscribe to the replies RSS feed to keep track of the suggestions/submissions. Also it's public so it could work as a conversation starter around any given topic.
Quality posts will be rewarded with quality replies, and hopefully the cycle can continue unfettered - constantly testing hypothesis and ideas , expanding knowledge and human expression to an unfathomed depth. Poor ideas will be will be disseminated, and logic and reason will prevail.
Guys like yourself, Godin, Haque, and countless others are leading the movement, and I feel lucky to be able to contribute. Mankinds natural curiosity, the desire to adapt, evolve and develop will ensure that this won't stop, and there will never be shortage of things to discuss, comment on and analyse. As long as we're around at least.
Tad Donaghe posted :
"I don't mean to criticize anyone who blocks other people that they find insulting or annoying. I usually won't unless it's extremely egregious. I'm a huge fan of Robert Anton Wilson and one of his big things was absorbing as many different viewpoints and possible and then seeing what happens to your own. You see just how sturdy your memes are"
If the posts are reasonable and meaningful, ultimately it will say more about those responding, (or not), than it will about the one posting.
via GoodExperience
"I have no problem with the virtual reality on your screens as long as you are aware that it is virtual. My concern is that experience by proxy is a poor substitute for the reality of the interactive space we inhabit. As a sculptor I believe that perception structures thought and that to see is to think and conversely to think is to see. The virtual reality of the media, be it television or internet, limits our perception in that it affects our sense of space. It immobilizes our ability to apprehend actual physical space. Don’t let the rhetoric of simulation steal away the immediacy of your experience. Keep it real, keep it in the moment." Richard Serra
Looks like there are little bits of wonder floating everywhere tonight...
But why is the immediacy of physical space important? I would say it's because it permits for depth-perception -- i.e., inarticulate information about how close we are to one-another -- and the higher bandwidth channel of communication that depth-perception permits.
Commencement adresses are a great source of inspiration as is richard's work
The thing you may have overlooked is that -- just like at parties -- you need to reach out to new groups in order to discover new information and common interests. You are a very lucky person indeed if the people you are interested in talking to always wander up to you and start conversations. That almost never happens to me anyway.
Then again, maybe you shouldn't take my advice on this. I haven't been to many parties since I was in college (many moons ago).
and as a side note about the switch, i bet when you are in edinburgh, you will have three months worth of ideas pop into your mind
The fringe is where I want to be in all things
I just wish the images were larger
http://joelaz.com/post/39528842/radard-tumblr
Fred, you and I live in different spaces. I am bootstrapping a strtup on the western shores of Europe and you are a VC in New York. Hopefully in the end there is a symbiotic relationship. I need to know your perceptions of world/tech/investement... and ultimately you need to know where the head of folk like me is in - I hope to be your future fortune. However my blogging is mainly for the people I need to inform in the short term (I am doing a keynote in Capetown next week and so all my prep and refs are "public" if you knew the URL). It allows me to be terse and expects them to follow up the Tumblr.
You can/should be different to Arrington- I read you because I need to feel your space - just say what is there.
So when I read that 10th post about Twitter being down, I think "Duh! Big whoop" because I've already accounted for it in my internal models. But if I read "Postmodernism is dead" or "The invisible hand is crippled," I stop and think "Whoa! That changes things." So if you're looking for sources of inspiration, I guess the question to ask is where do you frequently find information that actually challenges your world view? Any suggestions anyone? I'm trying to keep my RSS reader from lowering my IQ.
That's my professional mini echo chamber - yes, but if we believe in the "network" magic, then we should assume that my echo chamber is related to many others THROUGH you, Umair, Brad, etc...
They compile stories based on topics I enter and continue to refine. What I like the most are all of the little esoteric posts that I would normally miss on important topics for me. I have gotten more truly creative insights into the topics through their little service than any of the feeds I use to read.
I love this space (emerging web technologies), but really was looking for a way to capture all of the postings living below the radar.
I hope this helps.
I think part of what we're seeing is the downside of insta-reporting. We're getting so much up to the second, constant reporting, all "breathless," -- that no one is taking a second to think about the meta, or perspective.
One of my favorite adages as an entrepreneur and still now is "nothing is either as good or bad as it seems." The blogosphere (certainly politics, tech, celebrity news)in a lot of ways seems to make the highs higher and the lows lower, helped no doubt by signal repeaters like BuzzTracker or TechMeme.
Your stuff is thoughtful and analytic. What happens is when there are a ton of inputs from happenings like YHOO today into your system of inspiration, it completely breaks down and doesn't add a ton of value.
As a VC -- you are used to keeping your eye on the long run -- a lot of your sources aren't able to step back.
One idea for you: you could also take advantage of your incredible insight, contacts and sources yourself to do a "meta" piece, with original reporting -- "what does it mean" from the perspective of a guy who has actually built incredibly long run companies in conjunction with the entrepreneurs? And you could could ask MUCH MUCH better questions than most of the tech bloggers out there...
i think the current commentary is sorely lacking that. I know you don't want to be a journalist -- but you could help bring meaning.
I'd rather see a once a week/month great blog from you then forced daily stuff.
when do you think are we going to see some VC fund managers taken away in handcuffs, like the two Bear Stearns guys yesterday? It will be a highly educational visual on how not to lie when raising a fund...
What would lie about when you raise a fund?
Your prior track record? Maybe, but that stuff is checked pretty well by lps
Fred
VC's raise funds when there is noting in them
The bear guys were raising money when the assets in their fund were blowing up
A VC manager pitching to lps by making misrepresentations about portfolio companies in his/her previous fund, or future prospects, while at the same time knowing that to be false is as odious as these Bear guys...
happen.
I work for a company called Skribit, and we make a content suggestion widget for blogs. This may be what you're looking for. Basically, you ask your readers "What should I write about?" in a sidebar widget, and then they post suggestions which get voted on by your users. It is a very easy (and useful, we hope) way of gathering what your readers are interested in hearing about.
We're looking to expand this idea of inspiration beyond just the sidebar widget, and I would love to discuss it further with you. If you like, you can shoot me an email at erik !at! skribit |dot| com.
Very useful for me
Your blog: TechCrunch/GigaOm
Op-ed: Front page
Those guys report the news....well. You give us insight, analysis, context, and a macro perspective.
And they are great
Just send a text message to 40404 that says follow shakeshack
you'll be using twitter for just one little (but very big) thing
of course we live in a world of lies that goes to great lengths to block the truth, and so the world can seem very uninspiring.
One place I have really like lately is summize.com. I put in Tiger Woods the other day and just sat there refreshing for several hours. It was like my own personal news feed but edgy and cool. You could sense excitement in people's tweets. Every once in a while a spammer would stick his head in the door. It was just excellent seeing the story develop. It's how blogs used to be. It's how I wish they still were.
Doug K.
I've long enjoyed your blog because you write often and are laid back about it.
One really good thing to do is just sort of "link surf" through to new blogs and read people whom you've never heard of before. Additionally, read about stuff that you aren't necessarily driven to learn for financial reasons. I try to read new blogs every month and every now and then it is on something somewhat unrelated to my normal business/marketing acumen.
It's certainly worth a shot. Personally, I love when bloggers write about themselves and their own lives. It lets you know who they are and what drives their ideas. Very few bloggers are as interesting to me as those who are willing to disclose aspects of their real lives, not just writing about their business and expertise (Seth is probably the most notable exception).
Personally, I spend a lot of time getting information and getting inspired; but then I also spend some time unplugged: no gadgets, no news. I feel it gives me the perspective to put things in place and decide what's wheat and what's chaff.
Everyone who has a blog also has some thoughts about the nature of the web and where it is going.
1. There's nowhere to go for inspiration - it comes from within.
2. Reading tech blogs all day is enough to stun an ox.
3. Get out of your mental comfort zone (those damn comfort zones sneak up on you)
We are all playing with the same cards, it's just what you do with them So try these cards -
Oblique Strategies - a set of cards by Brian Eno and Peter Schmidt -
each card contains a phrase or cryptic remark which can be used to break a deadlock or dilemma situation.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oblique_Strategies
Or, as my art lecturer said - "If you have no ideas, just start working, you'll think of something."
All the best,
I'll sometimes pass on a video clip, photograph or talk about a news story but I aim for original content (or else why bother, right?). My only suggestion--and one I need to take myself--is to read a little less and think about what you DO read a little more (less busy time, more reflection).
I've recently been overTwittering and I'm finding that just the incredible flow of information and links that comes AT me through Twitter and blog feeds is getting harder and harder to process. Turning things off and stepping back for a while helps me hear what is emerging from my own mind instead of using my brain to try to juggle and evaluate all of the data that is coming across my path.
There are a ton of books on writing and creativity out there (a real mix of approaches) so I'd be happy to make a recommendation if you want to look into this further. I really find trying to understand where creative ideas come from a fascinating pursuit.
So like Techmeme from/for your audience?
Its awesome
"I write while driving, walking, swimming, riding a bike, listening to music. I write on napkins, on my hand, on the dashboard. I sing melodies into tape recorders or i call my phone machine, and now my cell phone lets you record for one minute. I write on the road and in hotels and at home. If a song is coming in, it's coming in, and everything else stops until it's done coming in. They come in during movies and sex and sports. And then sometimes they don't come. And i think i'll never write another song again. i've probably thought that at least a thousand times. i used to be all, like, statistical about it. i'd keep songwriting percentages on myself. i quit doing that, thankfully."
The challenge you're trying to tackle is coming up with insightful post ideas as opposed to jumping on a particular bandwagon. One of the tricks I use to gain inspiration for good blogs posts is simply taking a step back from the digital roar. It's amazing how good ideas can surface when you're not online. You can be reading a book, watching a baseball game or riding your bike when suddenly an idea emerges because you have time to think - something people don't give ourselves enough time to do in our hurlyburly, mutli-tasking worlds.
I think our results have been mixed. It is satisfying to have created a site that fosters thoughtful discussion across geographic, ideological and partisan lines. I often surprised at the new takes on top stories and introduction of important stories missed by the MSM. And the community via volunteer contributions (e.g., no paid moderators or posters) has existed for 8 years uninterrupted!
But there are some disappointments. The number of people who want to participate in such a site is limited. The number of people who are interested in following such discussion is slightly less limited, but it still isn't huge. Finally, one of the toughest aspects is that most people can't help but be ditto heads in one way or the other!
Now, my site isn't what you looking for, since you are thinking more in terms of technology and business than politics. But I think that some of the challenges (and successes) of e-thePeople would indeed translate into a biz tech community site if someone were to launch one.
Finally, I will say one last thing. Our site focused on discussion only, with lame petition and letter-writing tools as placeholders for political action. I think your blog is interesting not just because you are a thought-leader, but also because you as a VC are a doer. You are talking about a space where you are already a player. I think a really community site should have entrepreneurs, funders and thought-leaders all at the same place. Talking by itself gets boring after a while.
Thanks for your post. And I hope you can find--or create--what you are looking for.
Cheers!
time to reinvent
the nature of inauthenticity is when the future you live into is given by the past
I perceive that you are a highly creative person and when you started this it was a bright creative possibility and now the spark is missing
I really enjoyed your post today as well as the one linked at the bottom titled "Why Original Blog Thought is So Difficult." I am a InfoSec professional who has stayed away from the blogging and social network sites until recently. My wife often asks me why I bother keeping a blog? At first it was because I wanted an avenue to explore all of the new and innovative technologies that have been popping up. I then started to question the usefulness blogging because of the lack of original content. I'm now starting to see that blogging provides both a commentary on the content it's linking as well as a means for distribution.
Sometimes in this city it adds up to something, some little thing seen briefly at bookstore, something someone said.
Because most of the week is filled with doing stuff, I usually get to posting on the wkend.
By then all sorts of items have accumulated.
Sometimes words for lyrics show up in this mode, become part of the wordpool.
Cheers and have a great one
www.myspace.com/ikeyard
Dissensus
--Jack London
Inspiration exists, but it has to find us working.
--Pablo Picasso
I have a thirst for inspiration that is hard to quench
lucky that my life regularly consists of pursuing that search
:)
While I love to look around on the web for information, some of my most on-target posts come from reflecting on a set of questions I use when thinking about my readers:
-What problems do they face?
-What really scares them?
-What is *not* being said on the subject on other news sources or blogs?
-What can I share that will make their life easier?
-How can I make them feel more supported and confident?
-Who can I put them in contact with (via links or references) that will give them good information and advice?
-What will be fun and interesting to write about?
One of my favorite books on writing, Brenda Ueland's If You Want to Write: A Book About Art, Independence and Spirit, says:
"...inspiration does not come like a bolt, nor is it kinetic, energetic striving, but it comes into us slowly and quietly and all the time, though we must regularly and every day give it a little chance to start flowing, prime it with a little solitude and idleness. I learned that you should feel when writing, not like Lord Byron on a mountain top, but like a child stringing beads in kindergarten, happy, absorbed and quietly putting one bead in front of another."
I wish all my writing days were like this, but I can aspire!
Good luck.
-Pam
http://lifeinlists.com/2008/05/crm-built-for-th...
Part of what may be driving you to ask these (very worthwhile) questions is not just the lack of inspiration, but the sheer lack of civility. I'm amazed at how callous everyone is over the Yahoo! situation. Trained professionals (yep, looking at you Kara Swisher) and everyday bloggers are gleefully reporting on executive departures like it's a parlor game. They completely forget that these are real people, most of whom have families, and how awful it must be not knowing if your paycheck is not going to be there in a few weeks' time.
Inspiration is one thing. It would be lovely to start seeing some *niceness* back in blogging.
...Michael
Snarky is fun for about a nanosecond
Nice is fun forever
I've tried dozens of times
It just doesn't work for me
As I see it, you can live or you can record. If you're living life to the dregs, then blogging should just be a matter of hitting pause to take notes. I blog a few times a week, and I always feel the the bottleneck is time rather than inspiration.
honest
I'm offering some help :-).
We've agregated in our "sas application" 225 blogs from VC's and investors and we've some "deep" filtering and capabilities. These are all blogs from people that want to contribute to the conversation and share.
( I'm note focusing on VentureBeat or Boing Boing or any mainstream media as these one). Just real blogs.
If you're interested, I can give you a logging.
I've also some articles in our blog (blog.ecairn.com) that gives ideas on the level of productivity we have as a team contributing in large communities (our focus is a 700 blog community in social marketing but we've built list for people engaging in 2000 to 4000 relevant blogs in a given domain: personal finance, food, legal). It takes time but it can be done ! and you end up learning and influencing.
Hope this helps
Dominique
Let me make another suggestion. Read Scripting News. http://scripting.com/.
Now back to our regularly scheduled comment thread.
It's the best
Sorry Fred, the blogosphere was not designed to be inspirational -- it was designed, by a few people, to be profitable for a few people. It is a competitive activity and like all competitive activities -- only one entity can be Number One -- and the rest will attempt to emulate the successful.
As a comparison, football is a competitive sport conducted by the National Football League, a cooperative venture. Competition is regulated and controlled for the benefit of the entire League as well as the larger society.
In short, the blogosphere needs to be organized (I was going to say "re-organized" -- but that is the problem -- it never was "organized") as a cooperative venture.
As a matter of fact, the blogosphere is suffering from the same problem that the United States faces -- a small group of people have usurped the power of the people, for their personal gain, and are destroying the country in the process.
What more inspiration could you want than to participate in solving the country's (if not the world's) problems??
Obviously, there is a great deal more top be said on this subject!!!
Doug Skoglund
Some of the community successes, a homeless family blogged their way off the streets, the Dad became one of our community writers and now has a house and full time job, this guy is inspiring. We have had people meet up and become friends, some are now couples, we created a real world community book and managed to donate enough to plant 60,000 trees, but more than anything, it is a place to meet real bloggers. Very simple. Would love to see your thoughts.
Thanks
If you have nothing to post then it is time to slow down your posts to a slower pace to match your mind. No-one can be expected to be generating compelling and interesting thoughts daily and it is unhealthy for you to think not only that you should, but that others really care anough about your opinion to listen.
If you have run of of valuable insights then you really should probably think about retiring. It is hard for me to imagine being venture capitalist and not having a constant dtream of thought provoking things popping into my head.
Perhaps this is the essence of the problem with VC's - they think that they should be talkng constantly and that people will care about whatever waffle they want to spout.
Andrew
I'm now finding inspiration in every day people. They are doing great things, and many of them are *barely* online.
If you want to read some interesting stories totally outside tech, feel free to take a break and read about interesting people on www.storyofmylife.com/storytellers. The only reason I'm here plugging the site is b/c I have been struggling with exactly what you were/are above and finally feel great about what I'm doing - what I'm doing now is not about me at all. I started and stopped my blog a hundred times, and wondered why I was doing it. When I started shining the spotlight on people who are out there doing great things and not very often getting recognition, my entire perspective changed. I must say, I'm a much, much happier girl now that I'm not plugged in 24/7.
The reason I want to write every day is because its a routine, part of how I work
That's how this blog started and I don't want to get away from that practice
I understand that many readers may think the stuff I write about is forced or repetitive or boring. But I don't
it's increasingly predictable, incestuous and ultimately, boring.
Works for me! :)
2. Join me in discussing capitalism (and Marxism). Like you, I am not very excited by this and that news. But I am with the ultimate questions of how should human beings live. We can have endless discussions without having to find another topic for tomorrow. I recently wrote about why capitalism should not be called capitalism.
http://slowblogger.com/2008/06/wrong-paul-krugm...
I am several days behind on this so maybe what I have to say has been covered or ruled out, but with that caveat in mind...
Several years ago I read an article by Seth Godin where he talked about "zooming". From what I remember it was like "break out of the box Lite". He used the idea of the zoom in or zoom out to talk about ways you can get inspired by just expanding the boundaries of what you normally do. One of the best examples he gave, was to buy magazines that you wouldn't normally read. That's advice I follow to this day. Sometimes I find something new and interesting, many times I don't, but at least it gets my brain working in a different way.
I find that the best way to be creative is to create in other venues. So, maybe taking a sculpture class or doing more podcasting or video blogging can inspire you.
On Twitter I like to go on the public timeline every so often and just see what new people appear randomly and check out their pages. it's amazing how many different ecosystems exist on Twitter that have nothing to do with tech bloggers, etc. I am Twitter friends with what I think is the gay community of indianapolis because of that. There's also a site called random tweets that picks 10 tweets a day from various feed snapshots throughout the day and there are some funny, creative ideas on that one.
Roger Van Oech is on Twitter - if you don't know him, he's a leader in creative thinking - Michael Hyatt is a CEO that blogs who is on Twitter, maybe reaching out to him will give you ideas for how he handles it.
I am guessing your trip to Europe will help too - just an afternoon in an art museum can be inspirational - but the trip will probably also open your eyes to the bigger picture about tech, web 2.0 and its place in the world. I think that would be something good for you to write about.
If all else fails, think of A-Rod every October. I believe he chokes so much because he's afraid he's going to choke and because he's trying so hard not to choke. Sometimes you have to take a step back and say, I'm not being creative right now. I'll take a break.
I would not have other people write the blog - what I would suggest you do is interview them yourself and write those up as profiles- that way you're getting their ideas, but you are still writing.
This advice may hurt, it's advice I should give myself, but Twitter less. Yes, Twitter less frequently. If you can't do that, go back over your tweets periodically to see what you sent out in a short bursts that could be expanded on for a blog post. I find that the @replies you receive can help you form an idea. I got 2 stand-up bits from Twitter banter.
Finally thanks for posting this because it got my creative juices flowing writing the response.
Check out the about page: some of 3qd's (raving!) fans include Steven Pinker, Richard Dawkins, David Byrne (sweet!), and Nassim Nicholas Taleb.
I am expected to know it, have it all, and make it happen. Whether my decisions are right or wrong, these decisions have to benefit either way. It doesn’t matter how fucking tough it get, I gotta keep it together. Love aint practical, but it feel fucking good, it’s worth fighting a war. Being mean, short tempered, and cynical are the side effects of too much common sense.
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I know that I’m blessed to have all this to complain about, and I appreciate the things that bother me. It gives me purpose. I’m blessed to have choices and decisions. To live, learn, and love. How corny is that? But it is what it is.
The purple in the Irises this spring are deeper than a plum. My baby said ‘banana’, it’s her first big word! My seven year old is a true artist, mood swings and all. My five year old is truly a blessing, it makes you feel good to know that you child is kind and loving. My marriage may make it after all. My teenage sons are driving me crazy, literally, but at least they’re alive to do it. My husband and I still have time to help them become men of substance. We know so many in the grave. Like my Daddy say, I got the 5 basics: Love, Money, Shelter, Food, Heat
Hope it helps